Michelle's Strength

As I write, there is a young lady named Michelle walking up and down the halls of our church facility exercising.  She is amazingly spiritual and always has a smile on her face and a song in her heart and a Scripture ready to quote.  The first time I met Michelle, she asked me what my favorite Scripture was.  I said, “Romans 5:8.”  She said, “What does it say?”  I said, “God demonstrated his own love for us, that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”  She said, “That is a good one.”  I asked her, “What is your favorite Scripture?”  She quickly said “Philippians 4:13, ‘I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.’”  I said, “That is an awesome Scripture.”  She smiled a smile that was at least a mile long and was overjoyed by sharing her Scripture and hearing mine. 

As she is walking down each hallway, I hear her singing to the tunes of gospel music.  She just isn’t singing softly and timidly, but rather, with vigorous joy and conviction.  She stopped by my office and we chatted a bit.  She said, “I hope my singing isn’t bothering you.”  I said, “Oh no, I love to hear you sing.”  She said, “Good, I am singing to the Lord.”  She smiled another mile long smile and began to walk and sing to the Lord.

You see; Michelle isn’t like most of us.  She can’t walk fast, but she believes in Philippians 4:13, She can do all things because of Jesus!  She sees life through the lens of innocence and lives life with the joy of the Lord being her strength.  Her bible reading is a lifestyle, not a chore.  Singing to the Lord is an honor, not a burden.  Speaking about Jesus is her desire, not a task.  Smiles on her face are permanent, not an effort.  Michelle is love.  Kindness.  Joy.  Spirit-filled. 

Why is she?

Because she sees a Father who is love, kind, and joyful.  Because gospel music takes her before the throne of God with whom she loves so much that she extols him from her own heart.  Because her strength is in a Father who is walking down every hallway she walks and listens to every conversation she has with him.  Because she trusts her heavenly Father will always love and protect her. 

Imagine a world full of people who simply “…love deeply from the heart.” 1^st Peter 1:22 or a community where music is full of praise, where everyone “…worshipped the Lord with gladness and offered him joyful songs.” Psalm 100:2 or a society where our strength is in Christ Philippians 4:13 or where towns across our nations will proclaim, “I trust in you, Lord; I say, "You are my God." Psalm 31:14.

Life is a journey of unexpected twist and turns, ups and downs, happiness and sadness, calm and chaos, love and hate, laughter and crying, life and death, singing and silence.   The key is how each of us responds to every twist and turn and all the ups and downs.  When we proclaim Psalm 91:2, “…He alone is my refuge, my place of safety; he is my God, and I trust him” our life will be a reflection of everything that is good about God and will ultimately draw others to inquire about the lifestyle that is different from everyone around. 

Remember, Be God Controlled!

Brian

Who Really Matters?

 Black Lives?  Blue Lives? 

All Lives? 

“Jesus loves the little children, all the children of the world.  Red and yellow, black and white, they are precious in his sight, Jesus loves the little children of the world.”

As I sit at my computer typing this article, I struggle to find the words to convey my inner thoughts about what and who really matters.  Our society is inundated with hate crimes, riots, brutality, and hurting people of all colors.  As a white male, I cannot imagine how those of color feel as they read the stories about the oppression of their ancestors who were enslaved; or, how one might wonder if they are the targets of police brutality.   On the other hand, I can’t imagine being a police officer that patrols the streets of a community, only to become the target of those bent on hatred, getting even or a blatant disregard for authority. 

I’ve been wondering if the clash between police officers and those of color is really about hate or does it go deeper than one’s feeling about another?  Is it possible that the clash is deeply rooted in what we teach our children about historical events and/or the dislikes about one another? 

What if…

What if parents taught their children about how we treat each other?  Jesus said it best in Matthew 7:12, “Here is a simple, rule-of-thumb guide for behavior: Ask yourself what you want people to do for you, then grab the initiative and do it for them.” (MSG) It is true that there are some no matter how you treat them, they will be pessimistic and hard to love; however, when kindness, gentleness and patience are the leading attributes in a person’s life, it will help clean up a world polluted by evil intentions and helps solve the problem of bigotry.

What if churches all across our nation, no matter the ethnicities or colors or beliefs would unite as a people of God?  Jesus prayed this prayer to his dad, “I’m praying not only for them, but also for those who will believe in me.  Because of them and their witness about me.  The goal is for all of them to become one heart and mind—Just as you, Father, are in me and I in you, So they might be one heart and mind with us. Then the world might believe that you, in fact, sent me.” John 17:20-21 (MSG) Sunday mornings in our nation is the most segregated day of the week, yet, for believers in Jesus, it is the most important day of the week.  There are sermons preached about unity, yet it isn’t practices beyond the walls of the church house.  Sermons are preached about love, yet the evidence is clear by the segregation of believers.  It is interesting how we cannot meet in the same church house, but we can meet up with others of faith at a restaurant after the church gathering.  People of faith, it is time to change our behavior and start finding commonality in Jesus, rather than allow our traditions, theologies, ethnicity and skin color to separate us.    

What if we loved the children of the world, red and yellow, black and white?  Paul said it right to the believing Christian in Galatia, “In Christ’s family there can be no division into Jew and non-Jew, slave and free, male and female. Among us you are all equal. That is, we are all in a common relationship with Jesus Christ.” Galatians 3:28 (MSG) Truth be told, we all matter.  Black lives matter.  So do to the lives of white, yellow, red, brown or whatever color is out there.  Cops matter, too.  So do, doctors, janitors, lawyers, teachers, sanitation workers, preachers, and the list goes on and on and on. 

Rise up, America!  See the value in our differences, unique skin tones, ideas, heritage, culture, and faith.  God has created each of us for his purposes and plans.  Stand up, America!  Stand for unity.  Stand for truth.  Stand for love.  Stand for God. 

What if the world were just like you, what kind of world would it be? 

Remember, Be God Controlled!

Brian

#bestdecisionever!

As a kid, I use to sing a song called, “I am a Christian.”  It goes like this:  I am a C, I am a C-H, I am a C-H-R-I-S-T-I-A-N and I have C-H-R-I-S-T in my H-E-A-R-T
and I will L-I-V-E E-T-E-R-N-A-L-L-Y

For me, deciding to be a Christian is by far the best decision I have ever made.  However, the decision meant that I had to really be careful how I lived, acted and talked.  Although the decision was mine, it meant that I represent Christ who is holy and I must ensure that I do not misrepresent him in any negative way by my lifestyle. 

It is extremely hard to be a C-H-R-I-S-T-I-A-N sometimes. It is quite difficult to say no to sin.  Sure, there is quilt that follows, but in the moment, who is really thinking much about the aftermath of giving in to sin? Sin offers the fulfillment of our passions and desires.  Happiness is the ultimate desire for most of us.  Feeling the emotions of happiness and fulfillment are often the driving force of giving in to the very sins that cause a misrepresentation of who we are as a C-H-R-I-S-T-I-A-N! 

Whenever the decision is made to become a C-H-R-I-S-T-I-A-N, God gives us all kinds of help to keep C-H-R-I-S-T in our H-E-A-R-T so that we can L-I-V-E E-T-E-R-N-A-L-L-Y.  Think about it, God who is perfectly holy, completely righteous, and undeniably sinless provides all the resources to unholy, unrighteous and sinful people.  Why?  Because he desires for us to L-I-V-E E-T-E-R-N-A-L-L-Y with him! 

One of the resources God provides us with is his Spirit.  His Spirit is a gift to the C-H-R-I-S-T-I-A-N to lead her as she walks the lifestyle of representing a Father who “demonstrated his love for us while we were still sinners by giving us his Son to be the savior of the world by saving us from our sins.”  (Romans 5:8 and Matthew 1:21) (Paraphrased)

The Spirit digs deep into our heart and soul and takes up residence to produce life-changing characteristics so that each of us will represent God well.  Sin will not be the leading fulfiller of our life; the Spirit will take its place.  The Apostle Paul told the Galatia believers that when we “live by the Spirit, we will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature.” Galatians 5:16 (NIV) Allowing the Spirit to work in our lives is crucial for our desires to be godly and honorable, not godless and dishonorable to the one we represent as a C-H-R-I-S-T-I-A-N! 

The Spirit will provide everyone who makes the decision to be a Christ-follower a supply of fruit-seed that is cultivated in ones life.  The fruit seeds of:

-Love provides a heart-felt desire to be accepting towards everyone no matter the color, ethnicity, gender, religion or social values. 

-Joy is the sustainable inner emotion that keeps a person rooted inwardly with contentment when trials, hardship and struggles are beating a person up emotionally and physically. 

-Peace is the fruit that keeps us calm and steady because we know that the protector of the soul has provided us with the right seed to keep us from anything that can harm the eternal life. 

-Self-control gives us the ability to say no when the urge is to gratify the desires that are not honorable to God. 

Being a C-H-R-I-S-T-I-A-N is by far the most important decision one makes in life.  It is hard.  It is challenging.  It is tough.  However, God never allows the Christian life to be without the resources to be successful in living it out every day.  Know that God loves you.  Provides for you.  Is rooting for you.  Is proud of you.  Prayerfully, all of us can sing, I am a C, I am a C-H, I am a C-H-R-I-S-T-I-A-N and I have C-H-R-I-S-T in my H-E-A-R-T and I will L-I-V-E E-T-E-R-N-A-L-L-Y!

Remember, Be God Controlled!

Brian

Living in the Fast Lane

I am running late!  I’m behind!  Gotta get there fast!  Gotta keep moving!  Slowpoke driver, get out of my way!

Honk!  Honk!

Where did you get your license, out of a Cracker Jack box?  I’m late!  Gotta get there fast!  Gotta keep moving!

For some Christians, life is a constant drive through rush-hour traffic.  There are deadlines to meet at work, work to do around the house; appointments to keep and people to meet, problems to solve and money to stretch.  On top of all this, there are the Christian responsibilities:  Being a committed disciple, teaching a Bible class or serving on a ministry team.  Who has time to exit the highway?  I’m running late!  I’m behind!  Gotta get there fast!  Gotta keep moving!

Has your life felt like a rush-hour drive lately?  Zooming from one responsibility to the next?  Have you been changing lanes so fast that you’re flying by people without noticing them?

Take a look in the mirror.  Do you see a grim, determined, let’s get it done no matter what you have to do?  Are you driven by success no matter the cost?  What about your spiritual life, has it taken a hit due to living in the fast lane?  Are you tired of driving fast everywhere you go? 

Pull over at the next rest area!

Jesus said, "Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you'll recover your life. I'll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me—watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won't lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you'll learn to live freely and lightly." (Matthew 11:29 & 30) The Message Bible

For less life stress, allow Jesus to guide your life and keep you from being so beat up with endless “to do lists,” deadlines to meet or activities to attend.   

Remember, Be God Controlled,

Brian

Love Stops Hate

“Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. 

A gun does not hate as much as a knife does not hate. Only people hate.  A gun does not pull its own trigger; rather hatred behind the trigger pulls it to harm the one who is hated.  A gun is not bias, it has no feelings, it does not seek one out to shoot and it cannot be blamed for any wrongs that are suffered due to the hatred of the one using it.  The same is true for a driver who is drunk, gets into a car and begins to drive.  The car cannot be responsible for the impairment of the one driving and gets into a collision and hurts other drivers. It is the irresponsibility of the driver who is at fault.  The same is true for anything used to hurt others.

The only control that will ultimately work in our society is “self” control.  No one can legislate to anyone who is out of control with anger, hate or animosity toward others.  It will not matter if there are bans on any weapons, if one is hateful and angry enough, he/she will find a way to use any means possible to carry out their attacks. 

It now seems to be a new normal that we hear of mass shootings in our nation.  It appears that our nation is reeking with hate, anger and revenge.  No longer is it “if” there will be another shooting, but “when” will there be another casualty to ones hateful, uncontrolled life.  No longer are these heinous crimes in far away countries or on the battlefields of war, rather, they have come to America in full force and with a vengeance. 

It is vital for believers in Jesus to be realist and ensure that we do not keep our heads in the sand and pretend that everything is ok.  It is not.  It is not ok for Jesus followers to draw a line in the sand and fight over who is right and wrong.  It is not ok for Jesus believers to be segregated by color, ethnicity, denominations or hatred for others.   

It is time for all of God’s people to rally together as one to help change the culture of our nation.  The Psalmist said, “How wonderful, how beautiful, when brothers and sisters get along!” Psalm 133:1 (The Message) Jesus prayed, “I’m praying not only for them But also for those who will believe in me Because of them and their witness about me.  The goal is for all of them to become one heart and mind—Just as you, Father, are in me and I in you, So they might be one heart and mind with us.  Then the world might believe that you, in fact, sent me.” John 17:20-21 (The Message) Jesus was not praying the unification of Baptist, Church of Christ, Methodist, Catholics, Assembly of God or anything church group, rather that all believers will be unified so that the world would know Jesus was sent by the Father to give all of us the opportunity for a life love, grace, mercy, and forgiveness. 

The way violence is diminished is by Jesus followers to love God and love our neighbors.  The way hate-crimes stop is by the unity of Christians in a society and the reduction of segregated churches because of color and ethnicity.  The way self-control becomes an attribute in a society is by allowing the Spirit to fully take up residence in the lives of the believers.  The way mass murders stop is by loving God with all of our hearts, soul, strength and mind and loving our neighbors as ourselves. 

You see, when a community is being led by godly, Spirit-filled, unifying, loving, merciful, grace-oriented Jesus followers, it only stands to reason that love will lead, not hate.  Grace prevails, not hate.  Mercy demonstrates, not hate.  Forgiveness is plentiful, not hate. 

It is not up to the government to legislate a self-controlled, unifying, loving, merciful, grace-oriented communities across the United States of America, rather it is up to all believers in Jesus to weave ourselves within the communities we live in and teach by living the “Golden Rule”  and love unconditionally. 

Today, it begins with those of us who say we love God.  Jesus said, “They will know that you are my disciples if you have love for one another.”  We must not allow Dr. King's powerful words to be spoken in vain:  “Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.”

What are you willing to drive out?

Remember, Be God Controlled!

Brian

Color Matters

Shots fired.  Protest.  Anger.  Retaliation.  Bitterness.  Hatred.  Racism.  Riots.  Burning buildings.  Looting.  Baltimore.  St. Louis.  Dallas.  Baton Rouge.  Minnesota.  

Hate has a grip on our nation by a few who are bent on causing chaos and destruction We are experiencing the viciousness of evil and the power that the Evil one (Satan) has whenever he is given an opportunity to turn love into hatred.

It has become so easy to point fingers and play the blame game as to why there is so much hatred and unrest in a nation that is predominately a “Christian” nation. As I watch the news or read post on Facebook or have conversations about the hateful unrest in our nation, it is perplexing to me that believers in Jesus are so bent on making the issue about “color of skin” rather than about the real issue…Evil.  Satan.  The Prince of Darkness. 

Jesus said, “The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy….” John 10:10a One of the ways that Satan steals is by stealing our commitment to living the Jesus life honorably.  The way we live the Jesus life honorably is by following the two most important commands of God.  Love God and Love People. Matthew 22:37-40.

All people matter. All colors of people matter.   God’s colors are his way of making each of us specifically designed, unique and special.    Genesis 1:27 says, “So God created human beings in his own image….” (NLT).  God is the designer of each one of us.  He crafted us.  Shaped us.  Colored us.  And, gifted us.  Who are we to be critical of the artist that brought each of us into this world for his purposes and plans?

Our responsibility to one another is to accept each other whether we are rich, poor, or different shades of brown, black, white, yellow or red.    James 2:9a declares, “But if you favor some people over others, you are committing a sin….”  James also makes a strong statement by saying,“There will be no mercy for those who have not shown mercy to others. But if you have been merciful, God will be merciful when he judges you.” James 2:13

An ungodly society will be content with color profiling, but believers in Jesus must live by a different standard.  It must be the same standard and prayer of Jesus:  “I am praying…for all who will ever believe in me through their message. I pray that they will all be one, just as you and I are one—as you are in me, Father, and I am in you. And may they be in us so that the world will believe you sent me.” John 17:20-21

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in his speech to the Southern Christian Leadership Conference in Washington D.C on August 28^th 1963, declared his dreams for a nation stricken by color profiling.  He said:

“I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: ‘We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.’”  

“I have a dream… one day…little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.”

Color mattered in 1963 as much as it does in 2016.  Coloring profiling has not diminished in its importance in 53 years.  Until believers in Jesus of all colors come together and unite as one, there is absolutely no chance that a nation will change either.  When believers allow God to lead and no longer allow Satan any opportunity to steal, kill and destroy, it will only be then we will help a nation heal for the dreadful disease of hatred. 

NOW is the time to rally our nation toward God.

NOW is the time to stop being so comfortable in our church houses and hit the streets to DECLARE One Nation Under God and demonstrate that ones color of skin is not a barrier to a friendship.

Now is the time that all churches ensure that the doors of their houses are open to all colors.

NOW is the time to be diversely strong and be united in Jesus for the betterment of our nation.

When God is the center piece of our lives, as society changes
When the Word of God is read and lived out, lives change
When prayer is a continual part of ones life, lives change
When love God and love others is our theology, lives change
When mercy is our reaction towards haters, lives change
When forgiveness is limitless, lives change
When living the Jesus life, lives change
When sharing the Jesus story, lives change

When Satan no longer has opportunity to steal, kill and destroy, life change

For there to be less hatred and color profiling, God must lead, Jesus must live in our hearts as Lord and the Spirit must be alive and active within us. 

Remember, Be God Controlled!

Brian

Community

Community!

I have thought a lot about the word “community” over the last several months. 

I asked myself…

-What does it really mean to be a part of a community?

-How does one fit into a community that is already established?

-Will anyone be accepted into the community no matter how one looks, the shade of skin color or their economic status?

Community! 

This word is so simple, yet so complicated.  There are billions of people in the world, yet many feel alone, disconnected and unwanted.  There are “religious” groups of all kinds, yet it is hard to break through and be accepted.  Hundreds can be shopping in the same store, yet most are only interested in their own world.

  

When I first moved away from the city life of St. Louis to attend college in a much smaller town in Alabama, one of the things I noticed right away was the “index finger wave” that most drivers would do as they met you on a two-lane road.  My first encounter of the “index finger wave” was one of confusion.  I wondered why a total stranger would wave at someone they had never met. 

It was in that small town in Alabama that I finally understood that for some, community wasn’t confined to their family, church or neighborhood; rather, it was everyone and everywhere.  For the driver with the “index finger wave,” “community” was being kind to a fellow driver.  No hidden motive, just a simple way to show a caring attitude toward a fellow community member.   Anthony J. D'Angelo said it best, “Without a sense of caring, there can be no sense of community.”

Our nation shows its community spirit when a tragedy rocks our nation. The most recent is the mass murders at a bar in Orlando, Florida.  It was a senseless act and one that will scar our entire community forever. 

Community!

-How does a community recover from the loss of life and the hatred from one community towards another? 

-How does one community respond to another community who is bent on destroying them?

The questions are tough to answer.  It will take time to feel safe and to trust others.  The community that was once safe has now become a target for those who hate. 

If there ever is a community that must demonstrate a caring, loving, kind, safe and trusting place to live among is the church community.  It is sad when I hear others says that they do not feel accepted, loved or noticed in their church community.  I heard one person say that if she never attended another church gathering, no one would notice or miss her.  How sad, but, she isn’t alone in her feelings.  The church community must be a place where everyone is important and feels welcomed, needed and appreciated. 

The church community must not be a place just for the high society, a club for the economically successful or a group who wants to keep out certain skin colors.  Rather, it must be a community of the rich, poor, educated, non-educated, doctors, teachers, mail carriers, plumbers, electricians, janitors, poets, carpenters, and whatever God has gifted one to be. 

The community of believers must not be the one who picks and chooses who belongs, rather they live the “open door” philosophy that everyone is important and is welcome.  The church community lives out Ephesians 4:32, “…be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.” (NLT)

Jesus set out to teach that a Samaritan woman who had gone through five husbands and was now living with a guy could become a part of a community that offered hope and eternal rewards.  If Jesus could open the door to such a person, who are we to deny anyone into the church community?  We cannot!

Community is…

Hebrews 13:1-2 “Stay on good terms with each other, held together by love. Be ready with a meal or a bed when it’s needed. Why, some have extended hospitality to angels without ever knowing it!” (The Message)

John 13:34-35 “Let me give you a new command: Love one another. In the same way I loved you, you love one another. This is how everyone will recognize that you are my disciples—when they see the love you have for each other.” (The Message)

Romans 12:10 “Love each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other.” (NLT)

May Jesus’ church community be filled with welcoming, loving, tenderhearted, grace-filled people. 

Remember, Be God Controlled!

Brian