Taking Advantage of Others Shows Shallowness

Day 13: Genesis 29:1-30:43

One way a person takes advantage of another person is by misrepresenting the truth for their own gain. Power. Control. Insecurities. Narcissism. Manipulation. 

 

Laban in Genesis 29 is the uncle to Jacob. Jacob wants one of Laban's daughters to be his wife. Laban, a quick on his feet thinker decides to take advantage of his nephew for his own personal gain. Jacob falls in love with Laban's daughter, Rachel. In order to marry her, Laban required that Jacob work for him seven years. Jacob agrees to work. After completing the contract, Laban reneges on the agreement and gives his daughter, Leah to Jacob instead of Rachel. 

 

Jacob confronts Laban about his deception, but Laban said if you really want Rachel, you will have to work another seven years. Because Jacob loved, Rachel, he agrees to work. Laban's character was a testimony of his heart.

 

There are many people just like Laban. They are always looking out for themselves. They gain off the hard work and sweat of others, while they live a lavished life.

 

Sadly, there are others taken advantage of by the control and manipulation of family members. The deception is to pretend they can't do for themselves or they have no one else or they make you feel guilty for not helping. These people are masters at taking advantage of the kind, compassionate, gentle hearts who never want to hurt or upset anyone, so they fall victim to the manipulation. There are countless people who live their lives under the spell of someone who constantly takes advantage of them. 

 

The best advice I will give is this: When dealing with people, never take advantage of the kindhearted person. Make sure you have everyone's best interest at heart. Never make anyone feel badly for saying no. Don't force anyone to do something they are not able to do. And, allow others to live their life free from guilt and stress.